I’m sure many of you guys are tired of putting in actual work to get girls. I know I was.
My experiences over the past few years have taught me a lot, and one of the biggest things I’ve learned is that to get a lot of girls, you have to make something of yourself.
You have to be good at something. You have to be successful.
You can’t just be working a dead end job living like a poor person if you want to get girls.
The guys that get the most girls are the guys that are so valuable that girls start putting in work to get them.
Girls are attracted to money, status, and success, just as much if not more than physical appearances.
Who do you think gets more girls? The average looking tech millionaire or the good looking broke dude?
And you might say rich guys get girls because they buy them shit, but it’s not even true.
It’s not about the money. It’s about what the money represents.
Success is the most powerful aphrodisiac. And girls don’t even care what you’re successful in.
As long as you’re better than 90-99% of any given person, you can have any girl you want.
And I’m not saying don’t put work into your physical appearance (it’s still incredibly important), but making a good life for yourself is much more valuable and will have a higher ROI.
There’s a Limit to Your Personal Development
The word is out. Everyone’s working on themselves now. Just working on yourself isn’t enough to move the needle anymore.
And you’re never going to be able to surpass the guys who were born with the “it” factor.
No matter how much you improve your social skills, anxiety, etc., you can’t compete with natural talent. Some things are just inborn.
Again, I’m not saying not to work on these things, you just have to do more.
A good example to understand what I’m talking about is CT from MTV’s The Challenge.
If you’ve ever seen the show, you know CT is an absolute monster. He’s a very good looking guy (no homo), and is by far the best competitor in Challenge history. Every other dude is scared of him which makes the girls go crazy for him.
CT didn’t learn how to be an “alpha” male. That’s just the way he is. (Watch Rivals I for some classic CT).
So you weren’t born a beast, but that doesn’t mean you can’t make up for it in other areas.
What you have that big social powerhouses lack, is brain power. Since you nor I are naturally extroverted and intimidating, we spend more time thinking instead of talking.
If you’re talking all the time you have no time to reflect or analyze or learn.
Therefore if you’re reading this, then you already know you’re smarter than most extroverted people.
Get Good At Something
Back to the main point of the article, you need something to separate yourselves from the pack, (more so than the standard self-improvement stuff).
Being a normal guy, or even an above-average guy, just doesn’t cut it anymore.
If you want girls to come to you, you have to get good at something that will also make you money.
And I know you don’t know what you want to do, or even what you like to do.
Neither did I. I didn’t know anything about online business when I started a year and a half ago.
But guess what, I tried it, and I found out I loved it.
All you gotta do is pick a skill or craft, and try. If you like it and you’re good at it, then you’re all set.
But, you might not like it or you might not be good at it. Don’t get discouraged, just try something else. You’re bound to find a good fit eventually.
Here’s a list of things I thought of in 30 seconds that might help you get started:
- Graphic Design
- Coding (Extremely valuable skill)
- Music Producer
- Video Editor
- Musician
- Affiliate Marketing
- Ecommerce
- PPC Expert
- Professional CS Player
- YouTube Pranks (Basically anyone can do this one)
It’s Not Even About Getting Girls
Once you find your skill or craft, you’re not even going to care about getting girls anymore.
Your business will become your baby and you will put it before anything else.
You’re going to have a purpose in life that will be much stronger than you’ve ever had before.
And this is when girls will start naturally coming to you.
Because once you’re genuinely disinterested in them, that’s when you will become most attractive.
Final Thoughts
Well there you have it.
If you want to get girls, get the “good enough” mindset out of your head, and start thinking about what else you can do.
And like I said before, you will eventually lose interest in girls, as becoming successful will become the most important thing in the word.
Growing Loser 2 Winner has been the most rewarding thing imaginable, and if only one of you can feel what I feel today, then I’ve done my job.
Give your life a purpose other than vagina, and vagina will come to you.
Catch ya next week – Brian