How To Make A Girl Feel Insecure

What’s good everyone. Tonight you will learn how to make a girl feel insecure, which is the number one thing you can do to keep a girl around.

Now remember, this isn’t something that you do on random girls. This only works on girls that you’re currently sleeping with and already like you in some capacity.

You can’t get girls to like you out of thin air, but if they already like you, you can certainly get them to like you more.


And before I get started – this is going to be a pretty controversial article. Don’t think that this is mean and I’m some kind of monster, this is what girls subconsciously like. 

And if you’re a girl reading this, before you say how wrong I am, honestly think back to your past relationships on what made you stay with a guy and what made you sick of a guy.

Don’t be mad that this is what you like. You can’t control it and aren’t even aware of it.

Let’s first start with what specifically makes a girl feel insecure.

*IMPORTANT* – This technique is designed to get stuck-up American college girls to sleep with you over a long period of time. This should not be used on a girl you actually like and want to have a healthy relationship with.

how to make a girl feel insecure

20 Things Girls are Insecure about

1. Their weight

2. Their height

3. Their body hair

4. Their facial hair

5. Their skin

6. Their teeth

7. Their breath

8. Their nose

9. Their boobs

10. Their butt

11. What they look like without makeup

12. What their pussy looks like

13. What their pussy smells like

14. How many guys they’ve been with

15. How many girls you’ve been with

16. Whether she’s stupid

17. Whether she’s bad in bed

18. Whether she gives bad head

19. Whether you’re sleeping with other girls

20. Whether she’s good enough for you

how to make a girl feel insecure

Making Her Insecure

Now that you know what makes a girl feel insecure, it’s important to use these in a very delicate manner.

You can’t just be eating dinner with them and randomly say, “You’re fat”.

To make the girl feel insecure without it backfiring, you have to do so at the right time and also in the right way.


Before you start using these powerful weapons, you should have slept with her on at least 3 separate occasions.

If you do this too soon, she likely hasn’t invested enough into the relationship yet and will be like fuck that and stop seeing you.

But if you wait too long to do this, she probably will find another guy to treat her like shit (which she wants), and will stop seeing you.


Once the timing is right, you have to do this in a way that’s very subtle and not flat-out insulting her.

A good place to do this is right after sex (i.e. pillow talk).

For example, you could say something like, “Did you eat anything strange today? Your pussy smells different.”

And then she’ll ask you a billion questions about it. Don’t say it smells bad just reiterate that it just smells “different”.

She’s going to be quiet for a little bit, but thats just her being insecure in her mind. A few minutes later she’ll be back to normal, but this little event will stick with her. She will remember this.


Another example is that you can say something like, “I love your boobs. They’re so small and perky.”

She’ll probably say something like, “They’re not that small!” To which you can say, “Ya they are, but don’t worry I like small boobs.”

Again, she will probably go quiet for a little bit. Usually each time you make a girl insecure, they have a very distinct look on their face where you can tell that they’re really thinking about it.


What this insecurity is doing in her mind, is that she starts questioning and doubting herself. She thinks, “Am I good enough for him?”

All of the insecurities a girl can ever have link to #20 (whether she’s good enough for you). That is the insecurity of all insecurities.

If you have a girl that doesn’t think she’s good enough for you, you can get away with murder.

It also puts you in the driver seat, with her wondering how she can impress you and become good enough for you.

how to make a girl feel insecure

Final Thoughts

As you can see, girls being insecure is very good for guys, but it’s also good for society in general.

The reason is because when they’re not insecure, they think that they’re god’s gift to earth. They think that girls should rule the world and men should be their little slaves. That’s where all this bullshit feminism stuff is coming from.


Throughout all of history, every girl used to be insecure. But now with social media and online dating giving them a false sense of entitlement, it’s a very rare occurrence to find a girl that shows their insecurities.

They’re all cocky pieces of shit that think they deserve everything (even though they’ve done nothing productive their entire lives).

What’s even worse is that girls think because they like cocky guys that guys like cocky girls.

An “independent” dominant girl is the biggest turn off you could ever give a guy.


And actually, girls these days don’t even care what a guy likes. They are more concerned about keeping up their celebrity status and posting half-naked selfies on Instagram.

I could go on forever about this new generation of girls, and I definitely will be going more in depth in a later article.


Alright guys, that’s it for tonight.

I hope you learned a lot about girl insecurities, because they are absolutely crucial for gaining you the control in the relationship.

It’s better for the guy, society, and even the girl. Females were made to be the sidekick, never the superhero.

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By | 2017-09-09T09:32:17+00:00 November 15th, 2015|Girls|36 Comments


  1. Oliver November 16, 2015 at 3:39 AM - Reply

    I just say an excellent video on youtube where a “perfect 10” is destroyed. Here is the LINK ( : Must see, it’s great!

    • Tom Arrow November 16, 2015 at 6:01 AM - Reply

      Nice video.

      I am conflicted about doing this stuff. I value my integrity and want to tell the truth, but I do not want to be making up stuff to make her insecure.

      On the other hand, it is fun and possibly really useful.

      • Loser 2 Winner
        Loser 2 Winner November 16, 2015 at 10:42 AM - Reply

        Hey Tom,

        Often times you won’t be making stuff up. It’s just stuff you never would’ve previously said because you were too nice

        • Tom Arrow November 16, 2015 at 10:51 AM - Reply

          In that case, cool.

          Food for thought: Would a really confident woman really become insecure about these things?

          • Loser 2 Winner
            Loser 2 Winner November 16, 2015 at 2:15 PM - Reply

            Yes. 1000% times yes. The more hot and confident you think she is, she’s likely more insecure than the average girl.

            That’s why she spends so much time looking hot to begin with.

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner November 16, 2015 at 10:41 AM - Reply

      what movie is that from?

      • John Doe October 19, 2017 at 5:13 AM - Reply

        I think that’s from Nip Tuck that TV Show, I just saw it last week on Youtube & was blown away. I realized I really needed to study this clip over & over again. I made my girl insecure about her hair & she told me she cried about it in our room. She was soooo in love with me the day after, do this guys it works!

    • GMF November 18, 2015 at 8:53 PM - Reply


  2. Jef January 9, 2016 at 4:08 PM - Reply

    Hmmm this looks like something you’d see in the game, which I actually think is a great book! I feel the inadvertent insecure stuff would definitely work in the short term if you’re simply looking to get with a girl.. Longer term though I’m not sure I’d want to date a girl that felt this way about themselves or who I’d want to make them feel insecure..

    How would you feel if a girl said to you, you’ve been putting on a few kg’s recently have you been hitting the gym?

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner January 9, 2016 at 5:04 PM - Reply

      Ya you would. Insecure girls are loyal and easy to control. The opposite of that is a feminist.

      • Jef January 10, 2016 at 5:08 AM - Reply

        Heya man cheers for the reply, appreciate you’re perspective and I’m really playing devil’s advocate here but to me it’s not about control, not to get all new agey (ahh fuck it I’ll go there haha) but “control” is an illusion especially when it comes to over other people..

        The insecurity thing will definitely get you laid and has definitely gotten me laid ha and sure you could definitely use it longer term although eventually you’ll end up breaking a girl or guy if a girl was to use this down to being compliant, which I feel serves no one..

        Interested in your content though, I’ll stick around and keep at it bro!

  3. River May 8, 2016 at 2:24 PM - Reply

    When I met my last boyfriend I was a very confident person and he was not. He felt he was not as good looking or smart as I was and began to passive aggressively make me feel bad. I did start to feel insecure but I also started to feel something else – LONELY when he was around. I realized that there was this strange phenomenon where I didn’t really share with him what was really stressing me in my life because I didn’t feel comfortable. I assumed he lacked depth and was too weak to understand my troubles as he portrayed his life as superior. After almost a year I realized this was not the type of person I wanted as a role model to my child and that I wanted someone that wasn’t a coward. I new strong principles and depth meant more than passion and fun, because the passion and the fun is a short amount of time in comparison to the time a couple needs to work together as a team and confide in each other as friends.

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner May 8, 2016 at 4:51 PM - Reply

      Hey River – nice story.

      I admit that this stuff is kind of fucked up, and only to be used on younger stuck up chicks to bring them back down to reality.

      Sounds like ur bf took it too far, and probly didn’t even need to be done in the first place judging by how u are.

    • Pinky Pine November 11, 2016 at 3:46 PM - Reply

      I salute you, River!

    • Nick February 26, 2017 at 6:34 PM - Reply

      Moral of the story: this stuff works. He got almost an entire year of free sex.

  4. Stacy collett August 31, 2016 at 12:24 AM - Reply

    Wow ..I think I’m currently being treated this way by a man….but it truly is exhausting me..and killing any inner,peace that I have .beating me down…

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner August 31, 2016 at 1:08 AM - Reply

      Hey Stacy, I’m sorry to hear that. Us guys can definitely take it too far and go on a power trip as well. Power trips aren’t good for anybody, maybe have a talk with him.

  5. Kelly September 17, 2016 at 12:58 AM - Reply

    So I see you mentioned this isn’t for everyone – but be really careful about who you use this strategy with. I feel like guys I dated tried something like this on me. It ended up making me feel like I always have to prove something to them and I was always trying to one-up them I guess. Eventually I broke up with them because I felt like the relatationships were making me into a shitty person. I started off sweet but after a while I noticed I was getting kind of bitchy from constantly feeling not so good about myself. After being in a couple of these relationships I met my now husband. He was the first guy who made me feel truly loved and accepted. We never argue because I feel so secure in myself that I don’t need to assert myself with him to prove how great I am. The sense of security he’s given me has made me a much better person and a much much more generous lover ( if you get my drift). I also feel a hundred percent comfortable letting him take the lead in our life which is not something I ever felt before.
    I’d say this article gives great advice for getting laid or being on a Power Trip in a relationship but if you actually want a long-term loyal woman in your life you’d be much better off finding one that’s already a little insecure and then love the shit out of her. That’s what really engenders a lifetime of loyalty.

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner September 17, 2016 at 11:36 PM - Reply

      Hey Kelly, you’re definitely right that this stuff isn’t good for a meaningful relationship. I wrote this article for younger guys struggling to get laid and to gain confidence – much like the position I used to be in.

      Thanks for chiming in I agree with you 100%.

  6. Nick February 26, 2017 at 6:57 PM - Reply

    This line will definitely work: “Wow you’re beautiful. You’ve got to be the second most beautiful girl I’ve been with. I just can’t get over how pretty you are.” You have to sandwich it like that, and it has to be “second”. If you don’t sandwich it, it will be too obvious. If you say something like “third” or “top 5”, she will probably just become irritated at your douche-y obvious attempt at making her feel insecure. But “second” puts her at a face-to-face rivalry with another girl (who she probably doesn’t even know), and makes her feel like there is something she can do to jump to #1. If a girl feels average, you will not have much leverage. But if she feels like she is almost at the top and has a chance at getting there, you get to sit back and enjoy her transformation and clinginess. Eventually, though, she may become so hot that she can get a better guy. But by this point, you have probaby acquired more sex than you know what to do with, and become tired of the same pussy every day anyway.

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner February 26, 2017 at 11:38 PM - Reply

      Spot on Nick, that’s a great line which works the female psyche to the max

  7. It goes both ways March 20, 2017 at 11:30 AM - Reply

    This sounds absolutely horrible. I guess I’ll be saying to the guy, “Wow, you’re the second best lay I ever had!”. Sorry but it goes both ways, gentlemen 🙂

    • Nick March 20, 2017 at 11:53 PM - Reply

      Feel free to try it. Good luck!

  8. Kandy May 7, 2017 at 4:39 PM - Reply

    This is manipulative and shitty. If you can’t be nice to the person you care about and can’t rely on your personality to keep someone around, you’re a shitty person and deserved to be dumped.

    To the shithead that said ‘A year of free sex’ Are you kidding me? She wasted her time on you and you sound like a lazy worthless piece of shit. I hope you die alone.

    • Nick May 7, 2017 at 10:09 PM - Reply

      So far, so good. But I will tell you this: I get rejected much faster when I am sincere than when I am manipulative. The problem is that I am not ACTUALLY mean. I just pretend to be mean, which causes problems.

      • Lady K May 7, 2017 at 10:53 PM - Reply

        if you act mean, you are mean. nice attempt, though. be careful…YOUR insecurity is showing. lol

  9. Lady K May 7, 2017 at 10:50 PM - Reply

    insecure little boys who needed to put me down in order to feel superior and “in control” is the biggest turn off i have ever seen. i have no problem sleeping with someone when i first meet them, but i want to know i am sleeping with a strong warrior. not a whiney little bitch that needs passive aggressive little girly games in order to feel like the big man. haha

  10. James May 16, 2017 at 2:48 PM - Reply

    Nice guys don’t say the TRUTH when it HURTS.. they cover it up with lies, so the girl will like them… and that is a shame. Am no girl but I know that is also MEAN

  11. R June 9, 2017 at 9:13 PM - Reply

    Women wake up at one point. They recognise abuse for what it is. Mind games don’t work.

  12. Kay August 26, 2017 at 6:49 PM - Reply

    Remember one of the main reasons women cheat is Insecurity…

  13. KaleSquash October 2, 2017 at 4:51 PM - Reply

    Hmm…I think I see what you are saying. It is definitely hard to get out of abusive situations and girls are definitely susceptible to staying with emotionally abusive guys. I actually found that some of the worst emotional abuse that I’ve experienced was sneaky (like the examples you’ve outlined). That said, it didn’t make me insecure but instead disconnected. I wouldn’t sleep with the guy because I wanted to see a difference in how he spoke to me first. It was very subtle insults…I’d say take this guy’s advice with a grain of salt. If you want a true equal partner, treat a lady like a lady and see how she flourishes for you. Don’t waste time on girls that you don’t want to be with, it avoids hurt on both ends. Cheers!
    -A female that doesn’t believe in feminism

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner October 3, 2017 at 12:33 AM - Reply

      hey kale nice comment. i wrote this article for sleeping with stuck up college girls. you’re completely right about not using it for a real relationship

  14. Irunfromthesemen January 19, 2018 at 10:56 AM - Reply

    I love when guys do this! I reply with uplifting comments about myself! Guy: Your pu@@y smells different. Me: Cool! I love the way it smells. Guys I’ve dated always told me how good it tastes! 😂😂😂

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