Girls Don’t Want Relationships Anymore

A big reason why there are so many problems in the dating landscape today, is that girls don’t want relationships anymore.

Throughout all of history, girls would talk about why they can’t find a guy, and how they needed a boyfriend, and that they wanted to get married.

Since the iPhone and social media took off 5 years ago, things have changed pretty dramatically.


The endless amount of attention girls now receive has warped their minds into complete shit.

Now instead of the girls sitting around with tubs of ice cream, the guys are doing it.

We now have guys saying that they can’t find a girl, and that they need a girlfriend, and they want to get married.


The girls on the other hand, think they’re happy as can be. They consciously love that they hold all the power now, and enjoy sharing their vagina to multiple fuckbuddy’s.

Subconsciously, they’re more lost and confused than ever. They think that tattoos and piercings will help them “find themselves”.

girls don't want relationships anymore

Reversed Gender Roles

Like I was talking about earlier, the traditional gender roles are completely reversed.

Girls are now players, and because they’re so disinterested in commitment, the guys now want them to commit.

They probably all had one serious relationship where the guy broke their heart, and now choose to not have feelings anymore. They decided that power and Instagram are more important than a real relationship.


See in the past, they didn’t have a choice. If a guy broke their heart, they didn’t have any other guys to turn to.

With social media and online dating, they can summon 20 guys at their doorstep in a matter of minutes. Even fat girls can make this happen.

The majority of guys are so desperate that they’ll hook up with girls that are absolutely hideous.


And the reason these girls are getting guys so far above them is because guys are pressured to feel that they need to have sex all the time.

We gave them this power, but we can also take it away. We just have to stop hooking up with girls who are clearly below us. This will eventually even out the supply and demand.

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Dating Standstill

So we have the girls who are on a massive power trip, which caused the guys to turn into desperate losers.

The girls then assumed the male role and started working out and getting tattoos and piercings. They started bullying poor guys who didn’t know any better and took advantage of them.

The girl subconsciously wants the guy to take control, but the guy is now too pussy to do so.


We’re at a dating standstill. The girls don’t want these pussy guys, and the guys don’t want these dominant girls who look and act like a piece of trash.

This is causing happiness levels across the US to plummet to all time lows. More people are depressed than ever, and normal human interactions are hard to come by.

It’s like there’s a big wall between the sexes.

girls don't want relationships anymore

The Last Time I Had a Crush

I was even thinking the other day, I haven’t legitimately liked a girl in a long time.

Back when I was in middle school, high school, and my freshman year of college, I used to have multiple crushes all the time.

Now part of this can be attributed to the fact that I was a loser who was in fact desperate for a girlfriend, but not most of it.


I think it’s clear to everyone of the massive change in girls, both physically and mentally.

Overall, girls are more fat than they used to be, way more masculine than they used to be, but most importantly, they now have disgusting personalities.

I only somewhat liked 2 girls in the past year, and only one of whom I would’ve actually dated (she had a bf).


That’s pretty crazy to think about. Only 2 girls out of 1000+ that I even remotely liked.

Things we’re much different only 5 short years ago.

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Final Thoughts

One of the reasons I will be leaving the country is to free myself of these disgusting girls and find some that are actually normal.

Sadly, I can’t picture America ever going back to the way it was.

My advice to you, is to respect yourself, and don’t chase girls who you don’t even like. It will make you feel like shit afterwords, trust me.


In other news, I started a 3rd business with an old friend, so I’ve been incredibly busy.

It’s work I enjoy though, because it’s mine. I’m so glad I made the decision to leave school, and I’ll be keeping you guys updated on my travels and 2 other businesses.

Catch ya next week – Brian

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By | 2017-09-17T09:33:43+00:00 January 31st, 2016|Girls, Society|34 Comments


  1. yoyo January 31, 2016 at 6:38 PM - Reply

    love this post by pls why these depressing articles lol.. i love your how to: business articles: and college guide but this is uneccsary hate.. dont worry i love your website n will read it more and support you

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner January 31, 2016 at 7:51 PM - Reply

      Hey yoyo. I like sharing the truth, whatever that may be.

      Unfortunately not everything can be positive.

  2. rocko January 31, 2016 at 7:56 PM - Reply

    I have to disagree. They still want relationships. They just want everything their way. Anything they want. Be it, dinner, diamonds, trucks they can barely drive, foot rubs, the head of John the Baptist on a silver platter.

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner January 31, 2016 at 8:20 PM - Reply

      Some on them do. Each year a bigger percentage of them fall off the wagon and completely lose it.

  3. yoyo January 31, 2016 at 9:37 PM - Reply

    laslty brian i Know its a bit random and youre leaving US.. but if cost wasnt a issue and you had to either live in south beach miami or LA , which would you choose just by instinct for yourself? very curious thank you!

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner January 31, 2016 at 11:01 PM - Reply

      I’ve been to south beach recently and I didn’t like it at all, so I’d choose LA.

      Haven’t been there since I was a kid but that’s where all the action is.

  4. Oyadehtoklim February 13, 2016 at 7:25 PM - Reply

    Great website, you kept a nice balance on here that relates in a nice non fanatical way.

    You on twitter?

  5. Sven May 7, 2016 at 6:27 PM - Reply

    I don’t think it’s the case that many guys are begging to get a relationship. Most of them want a quick bang. They don’t necessarily want a relationship. Girls on the other hand are indeed addicted to the online attention. They don’t want a boyfriend, because they’re thinking about all the online attention they’ll be missing out on. Then they turn 30 and their biological clock starts ticking, and before they know it, they’re single with no children. That’s the reality. Men on the other hand are like wine. (most) Men get better with age. I think something that is very underestimated in our society is that men’s primal needs are satisfied. Videogames to satisfy their competitive desires, and pornography for their sexual needs. Is porn as good as a real lady ? Nope, but concidering how picky the market is, it’s more than enough. As for women, their ego is getting stroked. They get all the attention they want online, and they have their cats to fulfill their nurturing needs. In other words, women’s primal needs are being fulfilled as well.

    Bottomline: both would like a relationship, but the amount of stuff both would have to sacrifise doesn’t add up to what they’re getting. Perhaps it’s time we start thinking about a different model. Artificial wombs would be a start, where men and women can choose how they create their family.

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner May 7, 2016 at 7:06 PM - Reply

      Hey Sven – good comments.

      The only thing I don’t agree with is that guys don’t want relationships.

      Because they’re not getting any attention from girls, they aren’t even that interested in sex anymore. Most guys are like how fat girls used to be, desperate for attention and commitment.

      The overall power scale has to be shifted back to at least 50-50 for this to change. Right now it’s probly like 80-20 in favor of girls.

  6. ash July 26, 2016 at 6:48 PM - Reply

    I think that it’s because so many men cheat…

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner July 26, 2016 at 9:10 PM - Reply

      Interesting point, but in my opinion girls cheat just as much as guys now if not more

  7. Mark August 11, 2016 at 7:53 PM - Reply

    Well since many women have a career nowadays and are very independent which has a lot to do with it . Oh by the way, more women do Cheat much more than men do these days unfortunately which is Fact.

  8. JINCO August 25, 2016 at 7:19 PM - Reply

    what makes me so ticked off is that girls nowadays feel like the moment they share their relationship status on social media, they immediately lose respect and attention from other guys/girls. So they choose to be single, especially girls in sororities. They’d rather fuck and suck a quantity of guys in fraternities, feeding their ego’s. Girls now, especially when they are in their solid 20, completely hates relationships. They post photos of them with guys, acting like they’re together but mainly to prove their popularity and in reality, they’re fuck buddies. And what sickens me more to my stomach is that some girls use spirituality to their advantage to back-up their slut behavior. College is so divisive as ever.

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner August 25, 2016 at 9:02 PM - Reply

      Hey Jinco, I completely agree.

      It’s pretty disgusting. The sororities are corrupting the hell out of girls right when they hit campus.

      When I left it felt so good to get out of such a toxic environment.

  9. Mel April 14, 2017 at 11:35 PM - Reply

    I don’t know what college you guys go to but my college is very small and secluded and it’s almost kind of like High School. For me it is the opposing opposite men don’t want to be in a relationship and rather just be a f*** buddy to other girls. They’re not monogamous but they pretend to be. They tuck around with your hearts and that’s it you’re done with you after you’ve given yourself up too easily. I’ve learned the hard way I just don’t understand why the other girls don’t learn the way I did. You give in too easy you can’t Sustain interest. The Millennials is interesting as if you are showing interest you do not gain interest in return you lose it instead. It’s very sad but I just learn to go with the flow and stead of looking for something I really look forward to my future and to my education I put my priorities and my importance first before I put my importance and others. Because when I become fulfilled I want to share that the fulfillnent with someone who also is fulfilled. Yes I understand loneliness is hard and it’s a pressure when you see others holding hands and your hand is empty. But have you ever thought guys that these people are not your kind of people that may perhaps these people are not worth your time and you need to look elsewhere and you’re looking in all the wrong places as I did too.

  10. Laura April 16, 2017 at 5:42 PM - Reply

    Guys still don’t want serious relationships but that doesn’t mean girls don’t. There are some that don’t want relationships but there are many that do except you wouldn’t consider them as attractive because alpha males don’t easily consider them. You can be addicted to online attention but it doesn’t mean you don’t have sexual needs. I also don’t see many alpha males that desperate for the attention of less attractive women. People still date within their range but it’s very often an alpha male will want an alpha female and then be confused why he doesn’t submit to his every whim. It’s not rocket science – you need to lower your standards. Not to heavy-set girls but it’s obvious that there’s someone who would care about you. Not all girls are self-absorbed or think they can eat everything they want in America.

  11. The Truth May 14, 2017 at 2:40 PM - Reply

    Well since they love sleeping around with different men all the time instead of just committing to only one which that would certainly do it.

  12. Joseph July 3, 2017 at 11:55 AM - Reply

    Thanks for this post!
    I have been saying this for years, and people look at me like I’m crazy. Then I realized most of the people I interact with are married, so they haven’t even noticed the changes!

    The internet for all its positives, is basically undoing hundreds, or even thousands of years of progress when it comes to what roles work best between men and women.

    Women are getting tons of attention like you mentioned, especially if they are able to take creative photos if they are overweight. So they can continue to do whatever they want; play games with guys, get fat, not work, etc., and guys are still interested, for the reasons you mentioned. The power play is ridiculous. I have been on both sides of the male roles. I have been the more sensitive, caring guy that’s easy to manipulate, and the more masculine, confident guy that doesn’t take shit. And both roles suck, because I can be with a girl long term if I’m the sensitive guy, but I’m totally emasculated. I can be with a girl in the Type A way, which works great for a bit, until they realize that I don’t worship them like the guys online. I know there is more to that, and being cocky, funny, player etc., but that’s not my end goal. I am one of those guys that likes a regular thing with someone I enjoy being with.

    So, what country are you moving to? My international dealing with women have been much better!

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner July 3, 2017 at 1:13 PM - Reply

      hey joe, great comment man completely agree.

      i moved to thailand 8 months ago and i found an angel. thank god for girls outside the western world!

  13. Allen July 19, 2017 at 4:53 AM - Reply

    TL;DR: It’s happening all over the Western World, moved to Spain and am suffering the same ordeal.

    Man, I really don’t want to discourage you, but this is happening within other countries as well. Globalization is a hell of a beast, and most developed countries are following similar trends. After undergrad, I moved to Spain to teach English, learn Spanish, and just take a break before medical school. Ironically, the only girl I consistently dated in my time here was an American chef who I can honestly say was one of the few awesome women left. The Spanish girls on the other hand are virtually impossible to talk to, and will just as quickly ghost on you as an American. I plan on staying here for a year, and am already halfway through. Managed to go on two dates with two different Spanish women and they both held themselves at skewed value (not much going on in looks/career yet still had a condescending attitude towards me). I see why you say happiness is at an all time low, and have no shame in saying that lack of any deep emotional connection is bringing me down. Reading other comments, it appears that it’s the Western World and not America specifically, which is encouraging. I have to admit it’s fascinating to see just how much of a problem this is becoming in the modern world, and I don’t see any sign of it slowing down.

    • Loser 2 Winner
      Loser 2 Winner July 20, 2017 at 7:34 AM - Reply

      hey man ya it’s crazy and i’ve heard the same about europe.

      solution – move to asia. the girls here are angels.

  14. Reformer August 15, 2017 at 3:28 PM - Reply

    Hi this article is so true absolutely love it !! I live in UK.Well done mate really appreciate your effort and time,really re assuring too ,not all the girls are like this just s few so no offense to anyone ,since online dating has come ,hookup has gone so easy and yes naturally girls get more options to choose so they dont want commitments,family,relationships ,in simple words they want a easy life and get bored of one relationship and constantly need change ,so they start to change men like changing clothes,in Britan benefits has ruined all the women ,single mum benefits oh yes ,just split up ,frickin gov provides you everything ( I split up with my girlfriend who doesnt want commitments ,split up for silly reason ,she doesnt want to work on it and start the relationship coz she is used to the easy life ,am full time worker who earns £1600.00 pcm,ex gets the same amount from the gov-benefits so why she needs to work hard ? Lol ) Few men who does hookup and gov has made few girls lazy and made them powerful to pick and drop easily woth no moral values.Am not here to say we got to be boss thats not my point ,we are the reason who has taken moral life from them.I know we all need sex which is a physical need tbh but find other options and lets work as a team. Not sure how many of you gonna read in positive way but I will be glad if one soul takes my advice .Thanks for your time reading this and good luck and stay positive.

  15. “Fatgirl” November 8, 2017 at 2:03 PM - Reply

    This post is bullshit and half of the remarks in both the article and the comments are misogynistic as fuck, and you wonder why girls don’t want relationships anymore!

  16. Mark November 10, 2017 at 11:10 AM - Reply

    Well since these women are very busy sleeping around with different men all the time which they will never be able to commit to only one anyway. Most women just like to party nowadays and get real wasted as well which makes them such very pathetic losers altogether. Enough said.

  17. RealityCheck November 12, 2017 at 11:29 AM - Reply

    Good riddance! If this is really how you feel, women who have self respect, a career, an education and are well adjusted don’t want to spend their time with some loser who blames others for his problems!

    Like attracts like dumb ass! It doesn’t matter where you are in the world, if you’re a loser here, you’ll be a loser there too.

    • Pete November 15, 2017 at 5:15 PM - Reply

      Face the truth my friend. I have success in life with a beautiful wife and a house now. It dosen’t mean those things came easy, worked for it. I had experienced what these guys are talking about. Dont hate, but acknowledge what changes around you and light will shine through.

  18. Susan November 25, 2017 at 12:58 AM - Reply

    Basically it comes down to economics. Women these days are now demanding the same that men have been demanding from women since the beginning of time. In many of these posts, it’s mentioned that men have to resort to ‘fat chicks’ they are not attracted to. Hello ??? You guys are now the fat chicks that women don’t want and have never wanted. Good luck overseas, but take lots of cash with you. Or stay here, go to the gym, become physically attractive as well as mentally stimulating and see women as real human beings who have normal natural desires to hook up with men they are actually actracted to and you might find some pleasant encounters and actual connection with women. It is perfectly normal for both women and men to sleep around in their younger years to experiment, get to know their bodies and discover what they really want. If a woman doesn’t come back for seconds, she’s simply not interested in you. Get over it and move on. Both men and women want true deep connection, no matter their past. It’s a part of growing up and experimentation. Perfectly normal for both sexes. Just as men like to be challlenged, so do women. Both sexually and mentally. Men who are failing with women seem to ignore this fact. My only advice to the men that are dissatisfied with women these days is to see them differently. Yes we are different but emotionally we are the same. We all want to be loved, we all want to be appreciated for our true selves but that will never happen when both sexes have unrealistic expectations about the opposite sex. See women as human beings, sexual beings and your life will change, I promise you. We are not 2 dimensional dolls.

  19. Truth Really Is December 6, 2017 at 8:25 AM - Reply

    Well since most women these days are very busy sleeping around with different men all the time which will certainly explain it, especially the ones that like to party and get real wasted as well since they will be very horrible for many of us good men to get involved with to begin with. Unfortunately women today are so very pathetic since most of the women in the old days were the very complete opposite and they really did put the women of today to real shame altogether as well.

  20. Ben December 11, 2017 at 11:10 AM - Reply

    To Reality Check, You’re the real pathetic low life loser to begin with. Case closed.

  21. Get over yourself December 18, 2017 at 6:41 AM - Reply

    Just read an article by a woman claiming the exact same thing here about men. She had tos of women agreeing with her too. How ironic

  22. Get over yourself December 18, 2017 at 6:43 AM - Reply

    iPhone keyboard strikes again

  23. Justgoingwithit. January 17, 2018 at 4:22 AM - Reply

    Communication killed communication.

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